We arrived home safely from Korea last Tuesday and are slowing getting adjusted to our new life. Our departure from Korea was very bittersweet...we were so excited to be taking Claire home, however, we were grieving for her foster parents who were so incredibly sad to have to say, "goodbye" to her. It was very, very emotional. There are special places in heaven for foster parents everywhere.....
Our flight home was a challenge. We had been told that it usually goes one of two ways...the babies either completely shut down and sleep the entire 18+ hour journey or they cry. Our trip home was more of the latter. Claire was very scared and very quickly starting grieving the loss of her foster parents. There were 5 other babies on our flight to Chicago and Claire was definitely the most vocal one (much to the dismay of all the passengers near us). She's definitely got a good set of lungs on her! Ben was a such trouper the entire trip and had a great time! We are so glad that he made the journey with us!
Having been home nearly a week, Claire is becoming more and more adjusted each day. She's getting close to being on a manageable US schedule (although she's consistently waking up between 1-2 AM and wants to play....hopefully we can get her to put herself back to sleep soon!) and she is more comfortable in her surroundings. For the first few days, the only time she wasn't crying was when I (Christa) was holding her. I couldn't even put her down for a minute without huge crocodile tears. Now, she can be content sitting on the floor and playing with some toys or playing with Ben and I can leave the room for a minute without her being scared. She's also becoming more comfortable with Dave holding her (it's very, very common for them to gravitate more towards women than men because foster mothers do the majority of the childcare...some of the families that we traveled with are experiencing the same thing). She giggles and smiles a lot and puff up her cheeks and blows when she's mad...it's pretty cute! I even took her to Target today to pick up some things and she loved riding in the cart! All in all, we think we're all doing great!
Having been home nearly a week, Claire is becoming more and more adjusted each day. She's getting close to being on a manageable US schedule (although she's consistently waking up between 1-2 AM and wants to play....hopefully we can get her to put herself back to sleep soon!) and she is more comfortable in her surroundings. For the first few days, the only time she wasn't crying was when I (Christa) was holding her. I couldn't even put her down for a minute without huge crocodile tears. Now, she can be content sitting on the floor and playing with some toys or playing with Ben and I can leave the room for a minute without her being scared. She's also becoming more comfortable with Dave holding her (it's very, very common for them to gravitate more towards women than men because foster mothers do the majority of the childcare...some of the families that we traveled with are experiencing the same thing). She giggles and smiles a lot and puff up her cheeks and blows when she's mad...it's pretty cute! I even took her to Target today to pick up some things and she loved riding in the cart! All in all, we think we're all doing great!
Here are some more pictures:
Calm before the flight took off...


A rare moment on the flight....asleep in the bassinet

Playing together our first night home

Asleep in her crib her first night home

There's her grin!

She likes the johnny jump up!

Such a big helper!
She's finally home!
Dave, Christa, Ben and Claire
7 comments:
Wow, I'm overwhelmed. She seems to be adjusting AMAZINGLY well, and I'm sure you're all treasuring every minute -- okay, almost every minute. Thanks for keeping the posts coming even though I know you're up to your eyeballs right now. And I have to tell you I'm fighting the urge to offer gratuitous advice about her (and your) transition. I will hold off, but please call me if I can help in ANY way. I do remember living through a lot of what you're describing. We'll see you very soon. XO
Deb & Mia
데이브,크리스티.무사히 도착을 하였다니 정말 다행입니다.
세진이가 벤과 잘노는 모습을 보니 이제 마음이 놓입니다.
비행하는 시간동안에도 세진이가 그 시간들을 무사히 잘 여행을 하였다니 말입니다.
또 집에 도착을 하여서 기분이 좋은 모습을 보니 세진이가 크리스티,데이브,벤 속에서 잘 융화되어 가는 모습이 너무나 좋습니다...
언제나 행복하고 평안하시기를 바랍니다,,
데이브,크리스티.벤.세진이가 여기 한국에서 미국으로 떠날때는 벗꽃이 만발하였는데 이제는 벗꽃이 다 떨어지고 연록의 나무 잎사귀가 떨어진 꽃의 자리를 대신하고 있네요.
가정 모두 평안들 하시지요??
저희가족도 덕분에 잘있답니다.
언제나 행복하시고 건강들 하시기를 바랍니다.
대한민국 서울에서 강상수 ..
Your blog and pictures are wonderful! This is the first chance I've had to view it. Claire is beautiful! It was so nice to meet you in Korea and share such an amazing experience with you and your family. Your post to Claire's foster parents made me cry. I know how wonderful they were to her and I know how much they will apprecicate you posting pictures of her for them. Tell Ben and Dave we said Hello!
Penny
크리스티 정말 감사합니다.
저와 저의 가족을 위하여 코멘트를 남겨주셔서 말입니다. 클레어,,세진이가 데이브.크리스티.에게 사랑스럽고 귀여운 예쁜 딸이 되기를 바랍니다.또 벤에게도 사랑스러운 여동생이 되기를 너무 너무 바랍니다.
크리스티 가족과 한국에 우리가정이 이렇게하도 인연을 맺은것은 아마도 하나님의 크신 사랑이자 축복이라고 생각을 하면서 언제까지고 서로 생각하며 살아가는 크리스티 가족과 저희 가족이 되었으면 합니다.
서로 문화와 언어는 다르지만 눈빛만 보아도 서로 통하는 그런 멋지고 아름다운 미국과 한국의 세진이의 가족이 되었으면 합니다,,,.
그럼 한주간도 행복하고 평안한 가정이 되시기를 기원합니다,,,
사랑합니다,,,
She's beautiful! I'm so happy for you all. Would love to see you next time you're in Indy.
Linda
세진이가 출국을하고 세번째 주일인데 세진이는 이제 미국 식구들과 자연스럽게 잘지내고 있겠지??
언제나 건강하고 밝은 어린이로 자랐으면 좋겠다,,,
세진아,,,!!사랑해,,
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